We’re one week into the new year and a lot of women are already feeling their motivation fade. Maybe you started strong on January 1st with healthy eating, workouts, and big goals for weight loss or more energy. Now routines feel harder, life got busy, and your plan slipped a little.
You are not alone, and you are not failing.
Health results do not happen because someone is perfect. They happen because someone keeps showing up in realistic ways. If you feel like your motivation is gone, we can bring it back and make your habits easier to stay consistent with long term.
This is how I coach my clients to stay motivated on their health and fitness journey, even when real life is loud and messy.
Reconnect with your “why”
Motivation weakens when the goal feels vague. Weight loss is not just about a number. There is always something underneath it.
Maybe your “why” is:
- keeping up with kids without feeling exhausted
- feeling comfortable in your clothes
- reducing inflammation or belly fat
- supporting hormones through perimenopause
- wanting strength and independence as you age
Write it down. Read it when you want to quit. Your “why” creates direction when motivation feels low.
Focus on consistency more than motivation
Motivation naturally rises and falls. Consistency keeps you moving when the spark is not there.
You can support consistency by:
- scheduling workouts on your calendar
- planning your meals before the day starts
- laying out dumbbells and walking shoes the night before
- logging your macros so you can see progress build
This is not about forcing yourself. This is about setting up your environment so success is easier.
Keep your health plan simple
Overly complicated plans create overwhelm and then burnout. Simple systems create consistency.
In my coaching we focus on three core strategies that work for busy women:
- intermittent fasting with a schedule that fits your life
- macro tracking with emphasis on protein and fiber
- strength training two to four times per week
When your plan is simple, you can continue it even through busy seasons, sports practices, travel, or work stress.
Set smaller goals you can actually reach
Big goals matter, but small goals keep you going. Instead of only looking at “twenty pounds to lose,” choose progress markers like:
- three strength workouts completed this week
- hitting protein goals most days
- walking ten to twelve thousand steps several days this week
- cooking at home four nights
- going to bed earlier
Small wins compound. They build confidence, which increases motivation.
Build the right support system
Accountability keeps consistency strong. You do not need to do this alone.
Support can look like:
- a friend who walks with you
- a group program where everyone checks in
- a coach who adjusts your plan when life shifts
When someone expects to hear from you, it becomes easier to show up.
Release the all or nothing mindset
This one matters for long term fat loss and metabolic health.
You did not “ruin” anything because of a weekend, a vacation, or emotional eating. The fastest way to stall progress is to quit after one imperfect day.
Your next meal or next workout keeps momentum going. That is consistency.
Track more than the scale
Fat loss and body recomposition do not always show up right away on the scale. Look at:
- muscle tone
- strength gained
- inches lost
- improved sleep
- better digestion
- mood and energy
These are signs that your metabolism is responding even when the scale is slower.
Find ways to enjoy the process
If your health routine feels like punishment, you will not stay consistent. Build habits you actually like.
Lift weights with music you love. Try new high protein recipes. Enjoy walking podcasts. Make your routine something you look forward to, even in small ways.
Adjust your habits when life changes
Consistency does not mean perfection. Schedules shift, kids get sick, work ramps up. Your plan can bend instead of break.
You might switch fasting windows, shorten workouts, or walk instead of lift one week. That is still progress. That is still discipline.
The most important tip: keep going
The women who see results are the ones who keep moving, even when the timeline is slower than expected. Health is not seasonal. It is your daily life.
You do not need to wait for January again. You can recommit today.
Want help staying consistent
If you want structure, accountability, and a proven plan, I would love to coach you.
My 6 week program teaches you how to:
- stay consistent with workouts and nutrition
- use intermittent fasting without deprivation
- track macros in a simple way
- use carb cycling for fat loss and hormone balance
- build lean muscle with at home strength training
You will learn how to take care of your metabolism, not just chase the scale.
👉 Grab your spot here: https://lorenmattingly.com/the-faster-way
Tell me below. What helps you get back into your routine when motivation dips?

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